See.Quinn.Date

Oct 13, 2014

Today, I met a man who piqued my interest at first observation, then I caught a whiff of him smelling of piss and “all day & all night” balls.

"Oh hell no." *Maya Wilkes voice

I didn’t catch the whiff until after I’d given him my contact information. I would also later find out that he has two children, one of which is a baby under the age of 3. No ma’am, Pam. I’m hoping he just came from the gym, although that wouldn’t explain the pissy smell. Nonetheless, he is not the one. I hope not to be anyone’s babymuva #3.

Checking in,
Quinn

Oct 7, 2014

Sooooo! I have been living and loving life! I’m just being carefree!

Since I last wrote, I have been flown out, laid, and experienced my fair share of flirting. I’ve shared each experience with a different person! I am really trying to take advantage of being single and exploring my options before I find myself in another oppressing relationship with a monotonous jackass. Lol. I won’t get too deep with the details, aside from the fact that my sex drive has been in overdrive, and I still haven’t found someone to keep up.

Until Next Time,
Quinn

Sep 25, 2014

"she knew he wasn’t shit when she met him
but she hoped that same shit could be
used as fertile soil to plant a love that was
deeply rooted. -Alex Elle"

—hope for flowers (via alexandraelle)

Sep 25, 2014

"Don’t do that. Don’t skip stages in your life. You’re 19, kiss a few boys and wear your heart on your sleeve. There will come a time when you’re 39 and stuck in a suit, wondering why the hell you were so eager to grow up in the first place."

—Note to self (via versteur)

☝️☝️👏👏

(via afrorevolution)

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Sep 25, 2014

"We need people in our lives with whom we can be as open as possible. To have real conversations with people may seem like such a simple, obvious suggestion, but it involves courage and risk."

—Thomas Moore (via exoticwild)

(Source: onlinecounsellingcollege, via afrorevolution)

Sep 24, 2014

"The thing I’m most afraid of is me. Of not knowing what I’m going to do. Of not knowing what I’m doing right now."

—(via sassafranski)

😩😩😩

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Sep 24, 2014

Open minded, Unprepared, Optimistic, but Aware

What if what I thought I like/want or needed, in the sense of dating, is not really what I want or need at all? I think I like what is comfortable and what I’m used to, and that’s why I keep getting the same results.

I met someone, recently, who seems to have potential to show me how I want to be courted.

It makes me uncomfortable.

It makes me uncomfortable because he is a real fucking man. He has a career, he is established, he communicates, he asks questions about me, and he’s not a little ass boy.

I won’t completely give this man all the praise in the world because I am JUST getting a feel for him, and I know how some things work out. Although, should any kind of rapport be built between us, and he be genuinely sincere….I’ll just hold that thought.

Sep 20, 2014

"No one is always gorgeous. No one is always sexy. But love is a DECISION. Waiting to see whether someone is good enough is childish, and it is BOUND to make the other person feel on some level as though they’re auditioning for the part. In that space, we feel nervous, and when we’re nervous, we’re not at our best. The ego is looking for someone attractive enough to support. The mature and miracle-minded among us support people in BEING attractive. Part of working on ourselves, in order to be ready for a profound relationship, is learning how to SUPPORT another person in being the best that they can be. Partners are meant to have a priestly role in each other’s lives. They are meant to help each other access the highest parts within themselves.
    
I’ve been with men who never seemed to think I was good enough. I’ve also been with men who were smart enough to say, “You look beautiful tonight” often enough for it to bolster my self-esteem and help me show up for life in a more beautiful way. None of us are really objectively attractive or unattractive. There is no such thing. There are people who MANIFEST the potential for sparkle that we all share, and those who don’t. Those who do are usually people who some where along the line, either from parents or lovers, were told verbally or nonverbally, “You’re wonderful and beautiful.” Love is to people what water is to plants."

—(via jolinxo)

Mmhmm okay, I may like this.

(Source: mindofataurus, via jolinxo)

Sep 20, 2014

New penis may not fill an emotional void, but it for damn sure fills a void. ;-)

Sep 18, 2014

"She suddenly longed for the simple days of emotional unavailability and hot one-night stands."

—Carrie Bradshaw (via whatwouldcarriesay)

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